Step 1
Consultation & Commitment

All great relationships start with a conversation, so let’s talk!  Before your consultation, you'll complete an intake questionnaire to share your wedding vision. This will help make our meeting more productive and get you thinking about what your dream wedding looks like. Many of our couples feel a sense of relief after our first meeting, often expressing that they already feel less overwhelmed.


After our chat, the decision to move forward is entirely up to you!  Since I don’t charge a planning fee, I kindly ask that you sign a simple agreement stating that you’ll work exclusively with me.  Because I only take on a limited number of weddings each year, this ensures a reserved spot on my calendar.  From there, we will collaborate to narrow down options that align with your wishes, vision, and needs for your wedding day.

Step 2
Let the Search Begin!

From here on out, our goal is to find the perfect match for you! Remember how overwhelming it felt to search for the best wedding destinations?  Now, you’ll receive a curated list of options that are not only realistic for your celebration but also fit your budget, vibe, and guest needs.

With your detailed feedback, we can refine the list by eliminating options or suggesting others. Once you’ve narrowed down your top choices, I will provide more information, answer any questions, and connect you with the resort’s wedding team.  You can trust my process to ensure that the right decision is made and won't find yourself wondering “What if?”

Step 3
Decisions & Contract

At this point, we've taken what could have been months of stress and turned it into pure excitement! Depending on the resort and the estimated number of rooms, the deposit can vary from $100 per room to a percentage of the total cost. Don’t worry if you don’t have an exact headcount yet—most couples don’t at this stage. I’ll assist you in determining the best room block request and explain what happens if you need more or fewer rooms. This way, you'll be able to offer your guests guaranteed rates and room availability.


Regardless of which company you choose for your wedding planning, make sure they have experience navigating the legalities and requirements that vary by supplier, resort, and group size. Missing deadlines or misinterpreting terms can lead to costly mistakes and confusion for your guests. I’ll work to maximize your benefits and secure the best rates possible. With my expertise and strong partnerships, you can rest assured everything will go smoothly. I know there’s a lot to take in, but I’ll make sure you’re well-informed and breezing through the process. Once you sign on the dotted line, it’s time to exhale and start the countdown! 

Step 4
Guest Management

When you choose to work with me, you're selecting a premium planning experience that puts both you and your guests first. From the very beginning, I'll help create materials to compliment your save-the-dates, ensuring your guests have all the details they need and know how to contact me directly—taking the stress off you. I can provide a custom wedding website or a link to add to your existing site, along with a personalized guest letter to keep things simple and clear.

Behind the scenes, I work hard to prevent drama and headaches, treating every guest as though they’re on their own personal vacation. You’ll have access to a custom shared planning link to stay on top of travel dates, room selections, and trip status. Meanwhile, I’ll handle all guest communications, including payments, travel insurance, transportation, and essential travel tips.

My mission is to ensure every guest is happy and excited for your big celebration, so you can enjoy the day without worrying about the logistics. I'll be here from start to finish, making sure the entire experience is smooth and stress-free for everyone involved!

Step 5
Time To Get Started!

Still not convinced a destination wedding is the right fit for you?  If you’re looking to host an incredible celebration in paradise, let’s explore the possibilities together. Compared to a traditional wedding, a destination wedding allows you to offer an event with all the bells and whistles at a much lower cost, with experiences that last far beyond just a few hours!  These are memories that you and your guests will truly remember forever.  Whether you envision saying "I Do" barefoot on a beach, in a stunning Overwater Chapel,  or maybe ending the night with a stunning fireworks display, a destination wedding opens the door to endless possibilities!


We can also add incredible experiences for you and your guests before or after the wedding. Together, we’ll create personalized itineraries filled with activities like welcome cocktail parties, golf outings, rum tastings, spa days, catamaran cruises, and more. Your guests will be grateful for the unforgettable memories and the opportunity to travel, especially if they wouldn't have otherwise planned a vacation.

It's the little things...

You're not just choosing my services for you; you're also choosing a travel advisor for your guests! Here are some additional benefits of working with me:

  • Custom Wedding Webpage - I’ll create a custom webpage to take the stress out of the unknown for your guests. This page will provide essential trip details, resort information, deadlines, and booking information. You can link this to your official wedding website, link to your save the dates, or have it as a standalone site—whichever works best for you!

  • Invitation materials - I’ll design materials to send to your guests with all the wedding details that you can include with your invitations. This can include rates, deadlines, and other key information. Guests will be directed to me for any questions, so you won’t have to handle the inquiries yourself.

  • RSVP Management - To keep you up-to-date with the status of your guests, I will create a unique link to connect you with everything you need to know about your guests. You will have real-time access to the status of each person's detailed travel plans. No need to spend time tracking these details on your own - that's what I'm here for!

  • Guest Communication - I understand that the more support I provide, the better the experience will be for everyone. My goal is for your guests to feel valued and well taken care of, ensuring they have a stress-free and memorable time celebrating with you! I want this to be the best trip they've ever been on. You can expect your guests to receive helpful touch points such as payment reminders, travel tips, immigration assistance, and documents. I take pride in being friendly, responsive, organized, and transparent. Building relationships with you and your guests is one of the most rewarding aspects of my job!

  • Travel Management - As the main point of contact for all of your guest's travel arrangements, I will assist them with selecting flights, and get their transportation between the airport and resort arranged. You won't need to worry about anything for your guests!

  • Wedding Liaison - I can handle the legwork in connecting you with the wedding team at each resort. I'm always happy to sit in on sessions with the team. I'm happy to be as involved in that process as you would like me to be.

  • Industry Status - You will benefit  from my exclusive connections, preferred status, and top industry relationships. I visit the resorts I recommend frequently and have built relationships with resort management. There’s a lot of work happening behind the scenes, and you can trust that every detail will be carefully managed. I trust that you and your guests will be in great hands!
Desiree Hand, Destination Wedding Planner
More about Des

Des stumbled upon destination wedding planning as a natural extension of her event planning experience when she was asked to assist with a special proposal, and then help that same couple plan their destination wedding.  That’s when Des realized she had found her passion—helping couples plan their dream destination weddings!


With her keen attention to detail, impeccable organization, and unwavering commitment to bringing her clients vision to life, Des has built a reputation as a trusted and reliable planner. She prioritizes clear communication with her clients, taking the time to listen closely to their desires, needs, and expectations to ensure every detail is carefully planned and executed.


For Des, it’s more than just a job—it’s about building meaningful connections with couples and being honored to be part of such a special chapter in their lives. In fact, Des wants to be more than just your destination wedding planner; she aims to be your lifelong travel planner. There’s nothing more rewarding to her than having couples return to book major life milestones like anniversaries, babymoons, and family vacations. For Des, it truly doesn’t get much better than that!

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